Holy Matrimony
A Sacred Covenant of Love and Grace
Marriage is a sacred covenant, instituted by Christ, that unites a man and a woman in a lifelong partnership of love and service. Through the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony, couples are called to reflect the unbreakable bond between Christ and His Church, committing to a union that is faithful, fruitful, and open to the gift of life.
As Jesus performed His first miracle at the wedding in Cana, He sanctified the institution of marriage, elevating it to a sacrament that bestows grace upon the couple to live out their vows with fidelity and joy.
Marriage Preparation
Couples seeking to be married at Mary, Mother of God Parish are encouraged to begin the preparation process at least six months prior to their desired wedding date. This period allows for spiritual readiness and logistical planning.
Steps Include:
Initial Meeting: Schedule a meeting with the parish priest to discuss your intentions and begin the necessary paperwork.
Pre-Cana Program: Participate in a marriage preparation program designed to strengthen your relationship and understanding of the sacrament.
FOCCUS Inventory: Complete the FOCCUS (Facilitating Open Couple Communication, Understanding & Study) inventory to facilitate open dialogue on key topics.
Documentation: Provide recent baptismal certificates (issued within the last six months), confirmation records, and, if applicable, annulment decrees.
Liturgical Planning: Work with the priest to plan the wedding liturgy, including readings, music, and other ceremonial elements.
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Ceremony Details
Nuptial Mass: Typically celebrated when both parties are Catholic, incorporating the Eucharist into the wedding ceremony.a
Wedding Ceremony (Without Mass): Appropriate when one party is not Catholic or in other specific circumstances.
Visiting Clergy: If you wish to have a visiting priest or deacon officiate, please discuss this with the parish priest during your initial meeting.
Church Policies
Each Confirmation candidate selects a sponsor who will support and guide them in their faith journey. Sponsors must:
Scheduling: Weddings are typically scheduled on Saturdays, with times coordinated to accommodate parish activities.
Decorations: Floral arrangements and other decorations should respect the sacredness of the church space
Photography: Photographers are welcome but should remain unobtrusive during the ceremony.
Music: Music selections should be sacred and approved by the parish music director.
Contact Information
St. Patrick Church Office
(309) 444-3524
St. Monica Church Office
(309) 694-2061
For more detailed information and to begin the marriage preparation process, please contact the parish office.
We are honored to accompany you on this sacred journey toward a lifelong union rooted in faith and love.
